One of the ladies received her loan in November, made one payment, and then since December I have not heard from her. December can be tricky because of the holidays so I assumed that she would begin her repayment in January or Febuary. However, instead she avoided my calls and spent time at her mothers so that I could not visit her. I was sad for her, but not mad. I chalked it up as a loss.
This woman came and visited me yesterday. Apparently Daphne ran into her the day before and encouraged her to come and speak with me, face to face. Her entire demeanor was so sad. Her eyes were heavy, her back bowed forward a little, when she said "Bonjour" to me she was hesitant. We sat down together on my porch and she explained what had happened and why she could not pay back her loan. She told me that her house had been robbed and that immediately after that she got malaria. She looked sick as she explained these situations and said that the loan has been on her mind and she is sad about it.
I told her that I understand. That I am not mad at her, I am sad for her because her situation has been hard. I asked her to look me in the eyes so she could see that I was not mad. I then told her that we will take her loan and close it. She no longer has to think about it, it is a forgiven debt. I had to say this three times before she believed me and her face changed. It was as if a weight had been lifted from her. She smiled at me and thanked me.
"And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors." Matthew 6:12 ESV
Do I think she told me the truth? My discernment says no. But we were able to close our meeting soon after that on good terms. While she knows that she can't receive a loan from us again, she also knows that she doesn't have to hide from me. We are on equal grounds.
The entire purpose of Elevate is to show the Haitians Jesus' love. We do this through micro-loans that allow them to begin to help themselves and take care of their families. We do this through classes that teach them about what God says about money and business and relationships. And sometimes, we do this through the forgiveness of a debt.
All of these things we can do because we have been loved and forgiven first.
For more information go to Imslands-in-Haiti.org
Our friends from T12 came and stayed with us this week. We were able to spend 3 days serving with them. They had 4 young men on their team that are incredible soccer players, one of whom is an adopted Haitian. This is a picture of him sharing his story and the hope of Jesus with the young men in Sport Disciple.
I know it's blurry but I just love this man. He danced almost the entire time we were there saying how happy he was that his brothers and sisters in Christ had come to visit him.
Shane's aunt and three cousins came to visit us in the last couple of weeks. We visited a struggling orphanage with them.
Shane's aunt, Linda, loving on the kiddos.
Isaac spent all day Saturday driving back and forth to get water for Sport Disciple. His sidekick is Patrick. He is a 35(ish) year old Down syndrome Haitian. Through Sport Disciple he has gained respect in the community, earns a wage, and we have started to see the sassy side of him. Sometimes he forgets who is the boss. :)
This is Eddie, Shane's cousin's husband. We took them to visit one of the schools for 3, 4, and 5 year olds. They hang on you like little piranhas.
I can hardly wait for the time I can support all of this more fully!. God is supplying the resources, I just need to learn how to use them! Love you all, and love the folks you serve:) Diane Hicks
ReplyDeleteDiane, you have already be incredibly helpful and supportive! We love you on our support team.
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